13 July 2009

DR Update

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Click on the images below to see an update letter from my recent work in the Dominican Republic.

Thanks for all your support!

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19 May 2009

Running down the Aisle

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The middle of April is more than likely the official start of what the "Wedding Season." Flowers, rings, tuxes, and bows. All of these come together to create a milestone of life; a moment to remember; the collision of two into One; a hefty bill for the Father-of-the-Bride.

But this season is truly a time to rejoice and to reflect on commitment, love, trust, and life. A life of service to the love of our lives.

This past weekend, I had the opportunity to celebrate the marriage of one my closest friends in a very intimate and worshipful ceremony in Lancaster, PA. It was simple, filled with joy, a commitment to a lifelong devotion, and a declaration of love within the everlasting grace of a reigning Savior. Needless to say, it was one of the most beautiful weddings I've attended. Beautiful not in the defining terms of aesthetics, but beautiful in the way of humility and worship to God for their moment of union.

Two days later, as I sat in a booth at our "church gathering" on Pearl Street taking a break from leading music that Sunday (*stupid cold), the song below was sung from the hardwood floors of brewery.

"Wedding Dress"

If you could love me as a wife

and for my wedding gift, your life

Should that be all I'd ever need

or is there more I'm looking for



And should I read between the lines

and look for blessings in disguise

To make me handsome, rich, and wise

Is that really what you want



I am a whore I do confess

But I put you on just like a wedding dress

and I run down the aisle

and I run down the aisle

I'm a prodigal with no way home

but I put you on just like a ring of gold

and I run down the aisle to you



So could you love this bastard child

Though I don't trust you to provide

With one hand in a pot of gold

and with the other in your side



I am so easily satisfied

by the call of lovers so less wild

That I would take a little cash

Over your very flesh and blood



Because money cannot buy

a husband's jealous eye

When you have knowingly deceived his wife


-Derek Webb from "She Must and Shall Go Free" (2003)

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This song has been controversial since the time of it's composition, offending both store owners and buyers of the fine "Jesus Music."

But the truth hurts, right?

We [the Church] have issues with commitment. We have issues with Jesus. We have issues fully grasping the meaning of "Christ as Lord." And we are whores twirling wildly in the moment, and then racing away at the first sign of dawn, to the next business, to what we believe will sustain us for another day. Yet, our "Groom" awaits quietly with hands extended and eyes welling with tears at the beauty of His Bride. Even when she's running away. Everything she needs is within Him.

And He continues to wait with jealous eyes as His Bride runs towards the things of this world: woefully deceived and prostituted before glitter, glam, and forsaken promises.

As I sit here this evening as the sun begins to set, I see myself at the gateway to the aisle and the face of love: strong, loving, and forgiving. His hand is extended up the aisle and only one word is spoken: "Come" (*Rev. 21-22)

And I lose my shoes as I begin to run along the red velvet and lily pedals beneath my feet towards a love I can't fully comprehend, but know that I need.

Run down the aisle. If you trip as you run, you'll either pick yourself up or be lifted up.

As you continue to go through these next few months of Wedding celebrations with friends, family, and acquaintances, take a moment or 10,000, and turn your eyes back to your Lover. Rejoice for He has come for You!

And that Celebration is just beginning...

15 March 2009

Pink-Slipping Pastors

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*For all intents and purposes, this post is part-rant/part-challenge.

What happens when leaders of the church begin to look and/or act like the guy above?

What happens when people begin to ask questions regarding the investments of the church or "decisions in the BEST interest of the church and its congregants?"

What happens when you aren't believed to be following in God's spirit and direction?

(Que the trademarked phrase...)

"You're FIRED!"
(or substitute which applies more: excommunicated/forced-out/asked to leave/services no longer necessary/we're heading in a different direction/God told us...)

It's true that many of today's churches (those of the "Supersized"nature) have become more like businesses and run by a CEO instead of a Senior Pastor. Even the congregants/attenders are no longer referred to as that, but as "customers" or "consumers."

And that's what has brought the church into it's most present battle: Consumerism.

The "McChurch", (if you take the Supersized tag through the rest of this post), has fallen into the packaging, re-packaging, and the convenience factor in providing teachings, Christian Education, and family-ministries to it's consumers. It's become the cycle of needing catchier titles, flashier packaging, and more capital to expand the product. This, my friends, can take the form of anything from smooth, colored bulletins to "Extreme Makeovers" and building expansions. If it's not "new" or doesn't look new, then people begin to shop, and the capital runs out. Thus, the vicious cycle continues.

If one "employee" does not complete their expected assignment, they are warned. An in-service on the "Vision" may be held to remind them of their place in the "Corporate Family" (but always reminded that papers can be signed to "disown" the member). If violations of the "non-written policy" are breached by that employee, a hearing is held to determine repercussions before a leadership/administrative board (usually made up of three). This "team" of leaders, with two of them possibly being related (thus leading to a "conflict of interest"), essentially determines the fate of the "adopted family member." Often times, this decision is made while completely disregarding consumer approval ratings, positive returns, and capital growth. If the "vision" of the CEO is not upheld...

"You're FIRED."

A new employee is then hired to replace the "defunct" member, and business continues as usual. Memos are sent out. The entire work force may be in-serviced again on the "Vision" of the Corporation. The CEO may also provide answers to questions provided by other employees, but only in a manner that will reinforce the Corporate Vision and maintain employee morale.

And the cycle repeats and repeats and repeats until eventually, the business goes bankrupt (both fiscally and morally) as its once "faithful" consumers no longer recognize the product in which they purchased religiously for years.


So there it is...The Church is in a Recession of it's own.

And it doesn't look good.

In a year filled with the latest on Ponzi schemes, bailouts, stimulus plans, corrupt CEO's, self-designated raises (shame on you AIG!), and falling stocks, all of these troubles have found their way into "McChurch."

SO what do you do?

Someone needs to be the watchdog. Someone needs to oversee the actions of McChurch. Someone needs to see that the failure to do so could prove catastrophic to those who have come to find an understanding of salvation by way of the Gospel, but who became fixated then upon the product of Christianity brought to you by "McChurch" (TM) as it fattens and destroys your health.


As I have pondered and weighed on events that have transpired over the past three years this though came to my mind.

Pastors without strict spiritual accountability are the self-proclaimed prophets of their congregation.


Truly, who can argue or question the leader of a church who has been ordained to be "God's minister?" God reveals plans to them, and only (as they would claim), and no one else. (Funny. Didn't God put his "light in our hearts to shine"? (-2 Cor. 4:5-7)).

So who can be accountable to Pastors/Leaders of the Church?

How about the one's who ordained that pastor?
What about the governing body of the denomination?
What about someone who is advanced in years both in age and/or service to the Church?

Seriously, how difficult is it to do that!?!

I've lost respect for a lot of churches and denominations because of their failure to do this and has resulted in more "family members" being disowned and disavowed because of slight irreconcilable differences.

So unless someone is going to step-to-the-plate, we're just going to see more Donald's with their "fake"-hair, scintillating, yet obstinate personas, and "conflicted" administrations attempting to grab your attention and gain your consumer endorsement.

My advice... don't become an apprentice. Pursue your entrepreneurial skills instead.


This is a conversation I wish we would never had to have.


Simply ridiculous.

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*"McChurch is by no means a Trademarked phrase, but one used and coined to make a point in this blog.

*The names of actual churches (denominations) have not been used in order to protect their identities. Their characteristics and "business" practices, however, are real.

01 February 2009

Visual Varitas

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For some particular reason, I've been mulling over how important our sense of vision is for the past week and a half. Maybe it's because I realized how important it is while driving in a snowstorm through Buffalo.

It is truly amazing how our vision works. Our eyes contain millions of rods and cones that help us to absorb color and shape, providing our brain with an image that we then process into thought. It has been through our eyes that we have learned of colors, items, shapes, and sizes. Whether reading a book, viewing a television screen, or by shifting our gaze with the turning of our heads, we take in more than we can even imagine. I think that's why I am often amazed by the visually impaired, and how they've adapted to experience the world without their sight.

I had to go to the optometrist last month for my annual check-up. Not too eventful, but with a job looking at a computer frequently and the majority of my family and close relatives utilizing eye wear, I know that I will join the ranks in due time. For now, I'm OK with only using them while reading.

As I went through the various eye exams with the doctor breathing heavily and sitting way too close, I began to mull over the conditions of being farsighted and being nearsighted. Strange, I know, but let me continue.

Many of my thoughts constantly return to how they speak to humanity, and a humanity that is swimming about in a world of spirituality, being impressed upon by a loving God. So when I think of the words "nearsighted" and "farsighted," I think of how we often view our lives. Have you ever met the person that is so focused in the future that they forget where they are or what they are currently doing? Or have you met the person that is so focused on the present, the "here and now," that their focus paralyzes them and prevents them from moving forward or providing change? I'm sure we both have. In fact, we're either living one of these or both at some point.

The same struggles were present in the Bible. The church in Thessalonica were greatly concerned with the second coming and the life to come, that Paul needed to write to them twice to encourage them to remember the truth of its coming, but to not wait or be caught up in debates over it (1 Thessalonians 4:13-5:11/2 Thessalonians 2:1-12). Their farsightedness was preventing them from their current task of life, service, and work for the message of the Gospel that Paul brought earlier.

Nearsightedness throughout the Bible found many making decisions that would later prove hurtful or detrimental. David, the man after God's own heart, is a great example as he would often act upon his current impulses of the moment. As a result of his "nearsightedness" and actions, we are given the Psalms, the written pleas and repentance of his acts.

Funny, huh? We do it today in our own faith. There are some who are so enamored with heaven, with having their "ticket" punched to the "BIG SHOW" that they forget that they are actually a part of the Kingdom Coming. They neglect the calling of their faith on earth, of serving those in need. And then there are those who wait and wait and wait on God to tell them where to go, that they miss out on the graces that pass them each day.

But how do we correct these visions?

Just like how it's corrected today: with a new set of lens.

It's true. The plight of "nearsightedness" and "farsightedness" comes with vision correction by way of lens created for each of us. And with these lens in place, the hope is a 20/20 vision: a balance of both near and far. We understand today as it directs us towards the future.

Throughout my life, I have walked both. While in college, I was focused too much to the future. I was focused on the after (jobs, marriage, family), and I missed alot. In my senior year, my world got rocked and I swung the other way. I didn't plan anything ahead of time if I didn't have to. If I could look at 2-3 days at a time, that was the best. In that sense, I missed some opportunities that could have influenced my path differently.

But today, I find myself closer to 20/20 than those days. Sure there are some days that I see better "close-up" and others "off in the distance," but my eyes eventually focus to see the wider, sharper, and more colorful spectrum of truths in the world.

It's my vision of the world as influenced by the one who gave me my sight back.

I once was blind, but now I see.

15 December 2008

Seriously...

"What kind of an idiot throws his shoes!?!" - Austin Powers

 

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